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  • 4 tips on when to leave a relationship

    4 tips on when to leave a relationship

    Love is a beautiful thing, it is really admirable to see two people who are obviously in love. Although, some love stories are not that admirable, they are riddled with infidelity, abuse and ill feelings.

    Anyway, it is better to leave a relationship when love is no longer served on the table. Here are tips on knowing when to leave an unpromising relationship.

    1. When you feel abused or unconcerned

    If you constantly feel that you do not receive the due respect and concern, instead get abused; then it is advised to leave the relationship and stay away from the person. The prime goal of entering into relationship is to be more jovial and satisfied. Each of the partners should care for the other and try to maximize the comforts each other in a relationship. Emotional or physical abuses are to be resisted in a relationship and one has to leave immediately if the partner goes on engaging in abusive behavior pattern. Modern relationships do not bind any person to suffer lifelong with a person incompatible.

    2. When the love meter dips down

    Romance is the sum of all the struggles and tensions undergone in relationships. People get into relationships to enjoy the romantic presence of the partner and accomplish the human tendency of loving and being loved. If one of the partners doesn’t understand the importance of affection in relationship, it cannot go further in effective manner. You need not compromise your life for a partner who is less affectionate or rude to you. Lack of romance is the obvious sign of lack of interest. When the love meter dips down perpetually, then one has to understand it as the right time to go away from the partner.

    3. When the trust is broken

    Trust is a very delicate and must to have string that binds the partners in a relationship together. As soon as you realize broken trust in a relationship, without hesitation, leave the relationship. Mutual trust is essential in every relationship and both the partners need to adhere to the commitment. Trust is the way of expressing the love, concern and importance one feels for the other person. If any one of the partners doesn’t care for maintaining the trust in relationship, then it is always better to hold back from the relationship.

    4. If you feel depressed or unhappy all the time

    When the relationship infuses into a sad feeling always, then the relationship is not beneficial for you. Thirst for happiness is said to be the driving force behind every action in human life; so is relationships. When the relationship offers you depression, rather joviality and peaceful life, then going ahead with the relationship is not meaningful; leave it aside as soon as possible. Analyze if the said depression is the result of your own mentality or caused by the instances in the relationship. If it is ignited by the relationship issues, then the relationship is, of course, destructive for you and deprive of it at the very first instance.

  • Clergy man calls for the release of kidnapped RCCG pastor

    Clergy man calls for the release of kidnapped RCCG pastor

    By Abel Leonard/Lafia

    Apostle Dr.Paul-Chris marshin the Senior   Pastor of The Treasured House Assembly Internal Lafia, has reacted to the kidnap of John Egla, a Pastor of the Redeemed Christian Church of God, RCCG

    The incident is the latest in the wave of abductions in Nigeria in recent times, despite the efforts of the Federal Government to tackle the problem.

    Apostle paul Chrish called on the Federal Government to do all it can to ensure the pastor’s freedom, and called on the Leadership of the Christian Association of Nigeria (CAN) to do all it can to work with relevant security agencies to ensure his release.

    The pastor however stated that, “I am a pastor, residing in Lafia,  hearing this sad news, I  was devastated it keeps some of us in confusion but God is in control nothing will happen to the pastor. He will be brought back safe and sound’.

    It would be recalled that Daybreak news reported of a Pastor of the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG) that was kidnapped by gunmen in Lafia, Nassarawa state.

    He was abducted at his residence in Shabu community on the outskirts of the state capital.

  • DRAMA AS AYADE’S THUG WEEPS AT STAKEHOLDERS MEETING

    DRAMA AS AYADE’S THUG WEEPS AT STAKEHOLDERS MEETING

     

    By Joseph ETTA in Calabar

    It was  high drama when one of the foot soldier and thugs of Cross Rivers governor Ben Ayade, in the last election, Ekpang Ogar, wept publicly, before the governor at a stakeholders meeting in the state.

    Oga was lamenting  the  total neglect by Ben Ayade, whom he claimed to have helped to have won overwhelming in six wards in Ogoja Local Government area during the last Governorship Election.

    Ogar, narrated how his wife who was pregnant, had a  still birth because of the rigors and pressure they went through to deliver his wards to the governor during the Election.

    He accused the Governor of total  insensitivity and indifferent towards his and others plight after winning the election.

    The Governor who was visiting the Council Area since he won reelection for the first time for a stakeholders meeting,  however assured him that help was on the way

    “please don’t weep again, I did not know, now that I know, I will do something about it” he said.

    Ogar who was the first Electoral Chairman of the Ogoja area council also lamented over the collapsed of the Bridge linking his village to Ogoja town which has become unmotorable.

    “The people are suffering, they are in total hardship as they cannot bring their farm products to the market”

    He noted that the only road linking Yale to Ogoja and Obudu  was very deplorable,

    “the road is so bad that it has become a death trap. Every week people die on the road, yet the people of Yale and Ogoja gave the Governor the highest vote. The people voted massively for Ben Ayade”. He noted.

    Meanwhile, the stakeholders meeting which was supposed to run throughout the month of October was suspended indefinitely on Wednesday, because the Governor, the convener of the meeting was as usual out of town when the meeting reconvened. It would have been  the turn of the central district which include Boki, Ikom, Etung, Obubra, Abi and Yakurr.

  • 3 Attributes that make women go crazy in love

    3 Attributes that make women go crazy in love

    Treating a woman right by showering her with love, attention and respecting her will make her place you in a special place in her heart. She is very much likely to love you immensely.

    But being all sweet to her is not enough to make her mad over you. Here are qualities that make every woman go gaga and helplessly in love:

    1. Confidence

    Nothing looks as sexy on a man as confidence. An undeniable swagger and an aura proceeds from you and commands respect and admiration.

    There is a thin line between this and pomposity and only a very few know how to sublimely maneuver that line.

    The moment you are able to perfect this and you become able to converse, carry yourself and relate in this manner, best believe it, women would be stuck to you like steel to a magnet.

    2. Loyalty

    Everyone knows how hard it is to locate loyalty these days, especially in men and for this reason, if you can project a charisma and back it up with loyalty and unfaithfulness to stick with her exclusively, she’ll be locked down with you, man, best believe that.

    Women are more trusting, often willing to love with the whole of what they’ve got and loyalty is one of the things that assures them that they are not mistaken in giving you the whole of themselves.

    Once they can ascertain that, the likelihood that they’ll leave is pretty low.

    3. Super sex

    Some might want to argue with the validity of this, but it is every bit solid as the other two points above.

    If amazing, spine-tingling sex is added to your confidence and loyalty, the formula becomes complete and she’ll be addicted to you like crack.

    While some might argue that wealth might be a better substitute for one of these three points, all you need do is look around you and see the number of people who aren’t rich but are stuck together in real love.

    That tells you that wealth or lack of it does not really weigh on the hearts of women when they’re truly, really falling in love.

  • 3 Attributes of a drama queen

    3 Attributes of a drama queen

    A drama queen is someone [the term is usually used for women] who reacts to situations and circumstances in excessive, melodramatic ways.

    We all have our preferences and things we can live with even in relationships. Now the question is can you live with a drama queen?

    However, we all want some peace and calm in our relationships and having to deal with a drama queen can take a toll on one’s well-being.

    So, if you are ready to get into a relationship and don’t want to end up with a drama queen, here are signs you should look out for:

    1. They overreact

    Obviously the biggest thing about a babe who is dramatic. Issues get blown out of proportion and issues that can be sorted out in better ways do not get trashed out until she has had a session of being overly emotional.

    Whether you piss her off by saying something you shouldn’t have said, or by arriving late by few minutes to a date, you can bet that her default setting is to overreact.

    And you don’t need this kind of energy, do you?

    2. 100% attention

    Drama queens are also very likely to be overly demanding of attention and time. They’ll throw tantrums if they are not on your Whatsapp status updates, on your IG feed and stories and pretty much every known way of demanding attention, even unnecessarily.

    But what most people in healthy relationships have is a balance that comes from the knowledge that their partner is theirs and the fact that he has to deal with other things like his work and other responsibilities doesn’t change that.

    3. Immature

    This is pretty much obvious from the title ‘drama queen.’ There is a childishness to the whole of their disposition and the way they deal with situations. A drama queen lacks emotional intelligence most of the time and always wants things to go her way, failure of which leads to tantrums.

    What you need however, is someone whose mental growth matches their physical development to the point where the know how to address issues with appropriate energy.

  • FG seeks collective efforts to tackle insecurity

    FG seeks collective efforts to tackle insecurity

    By Our Reporter

    The Federal Government has again called on states, local governments, community leaders, religious groups and individuals to support its efforts at ensuring a peaceful environment for all Nigerians.

    The Minister of Interior, Ogbeni Rauf Aregbesola was quoted as making the call in a statement on Thursday in Abuja, by Mr Mohammed Manga, Director Press and Public Relations of the ministry.

    The Minister, who spoke after a closed door meeting with the Gov. Simon Lalong of Plateau, said that security of all Nigerians was very important and that it could not be left in the hands of the Federal Government alone.

    He stressed the need for collaborative efforts of all and sundry to tackle all threats to internal security in the country.

    The minister assured that President Muhammadu Buhari-led administration was committed to moving the country to the next level of socio-economic development through the protection of lives and property of Nigerians.

    According to him, the government is committed to revitalising the economy and entrenching transparency in all aspects of governance.

    “Security cuts across the federal, states, local governments, political associations, religious groups, communities and individuals; it is a collective responsibility and we all must see it as such,” he said.

    He expressed confidence that Nigeria will soon overcome its security challenges if every segment of the society plays its part in the fight against insecurity.

    Speaking, Lalong said he was in the Ministry to seek collaboration with the Federal Government on how to tackle security challenges in his state.

    “In my capacity as the governor of Plateau State, I thought it wise to come and see the Minister in charge of internal security in Nigeria to see how we can join hands to ensure peace and security not only in Plateau but also in the entire country,” he said.

    Lalong said further that there was the need for all the state governments to complement the federal government’s efforts in tackling insecurity with the deployment of modern technology to combat crime and criminality in the country.

    The governor noted that crime has become complex to handle.

    He pledged the commitment and support of the people and government of Plateau State to the Federal Government in ensuring peace and security in the country. (NAN)

  • 5 Ways to make money with an app

    5 Ways to make money with an app

    Gone are the days when one has to engage in office work or menial job to earn a living. Nowadays, people are smiling to the bank by developing apps and monetizing it. Here are ways an app can fetch you money.

    1. In-App Ads
    One of the most effective and easiest way to earn from an app is to feature advertisements on your app. When you own an app all the views, clicks, nature of the ads will generate revenue.

    As video ads will fetch you more when compared to banner ads, Interstitial ads may get you more money as they will pop up anytime in between and occupies the whole screen. You must ensure that it is kept short and informative.

    2. Paid Apps
    While some apps keep a pricing tag for downloads. It does make sense as they have spent a lot of time and effort to build an app they wouldn’t want to keep it for free.

    But there are side-effects for this as many people are used to free versions they would think twice before spending on app downloads. The downloads count may be less for the paid versions.

    3. Sponsors
    Connect to sponsors that are targeting a similar audience as they will more interested in your app to reach their customers. Through this approach, you and your sponsor both will benefit.

    As an app owner, you will gain from your sponsors brand popularity and web traffic. This strategy is more likely available for the apps that already have users.

    4. In-App Upgrades
    Majority of free version based apps attract users by offering premium level products like app-based merchandise, advance level upgrades, virtual stuff etc. As a user gets addicted to an app they wishfully spend money without any hesitation.

    This kind of revenue generating strategies is growing day after day and will be seen more in further days to come.

    5. Subscriptions
    Although it is not a very appealing strategy to introduce a paid version of apps, at the start you can launch your app on a free trial version for a certain period of time and can charge it from later. As the users will be addicted to your app they would want to pay you the subscription charges for further usage.

    For this to be successful it must offer unique features, where no other app can give if not so customers may find some other alternative free version to replace it.

    Conclusion
    If your app is successful, automatically the companies will pay you tons to advertise their products. Creating apps that are compatible with multiple mobile operating systems like cross-platform mobile development results in significant cost reduction and growth in app revenue.

    Don’t overdo on things as by concentrating more on making money from other sources, you may make your users feel bored which in turn may affect your overall app performance.

  • Lagos Govt to complete abandoned 70m-gallon Adiyan Water Project in 18 months

    Lagos Govt to complete abandoned 70m-gallon Adiyan Water Project in 18 months

    By Our Reporter

    The Lagos State Government has announced its resolve to complete within 18 months the 70 million-gallon Adiyan Water Project which was abandoned by previous administration.

    Gov. Babajide Sanwo-Olu said on Thursday during an inspection of the water works that the contractor handling the project, located in the north-western part of the state, had been mobilized back to site.

    He said the project, which was awarded in 2013 by the Babatunde Fashola administration, would be completed within 18 months.

    It would be recalled that the Adiyan II waterworks project was initiated by Fashola’s administration to provide safe drinking water to more than five million Lagos residents.

    The project had reached about 70 per cent completion when it was abandoned.

    Sanwo-Olu said that his administration decided to complete the water project because of its strategic importance to the well-being of the people.

    The governor, who described the project as the `biggest of its kind’ in Nigeria, said it would raise the state’s potable water supply capacity.

    “With this project, we will be raising the capacity of our potable water supply, the capacity is more than 70 million gallons.

    “The commitment on the side of government is to ensure prudence, as well as speedy and quality completion,” he said.

    Sanwo-Olu further said that the contractor had assured that the project would be delivered within 18 months.

    “As a government, we will work with the contractor and the project consultant to deliver this project within the agreed time frame.

    “Completing this project means that we have achieved one of the key items of the Sustainable Development Goals, which is also a strategic pillar of our development agenda.

    “Provision of safe drinking water to no fewer than five million citizens of Lagos is part of our government’s development agenda,” he said.

    Sanwo-Olu also said the state government would soon award contract for the commencement of the second and third phases of the water project.

    He said that the second and third phases were reticulation works and construction of eight-kilometre water intake conduits from Akute to Adiyan.

    Sanwo-Olu said that issues such as compensations and rights of way would be addressed to allow the contractor finish the project on record time.

    “Parts of the construction work were suspended because of issues of rights of way with the residents and Ogun State, we are also going to handle all these.

    “We will pay all the compensations to ensure that they can lay the pipes,” he said.

    Sanwo-Olu also inspected the Lagos State Water Corporation infrastructure in Iju-Akute axis.

    The governor used the visit to assess the possibility of rejigging operations and enhancing the productivity of the state-owned water facilities.

    Sanwo-Olu, who expressed worry over the state of the facilities, said the government would seek private sector funding to revamp the infrastructure.

    ‘“We need to raise money, get new investment to improve the output of these important facilities.

    ”On the power plant, we also need to scale up and get another one ready for Adiyan II water works, which will be ready in 18 months.

    “So it’s a total eco-chain we are looking at: We have to start the planning from now to ensure that the new water works will have electricity to make it function effectively,” he said.

    The Adiyan II water works is sited on 210 hectares of land in a borderline community between Lagos and Ogun States.(NAN)

  • NiMet predicts thunderstorms, rains for Friday

    NiMet predicts thunderstorms, rains for Friday

    By Our Reporter

    The Nigerian Meteorological Agency (NiMet) has predicted chances of thunderstorms and rains over a few parts of the country for Friday.

    NiMet in its forecast outlook on Thursday, predicted partly cloudy condition over the Northern states in the morning hours.

    It further forecast a few thunderstorms over the region later in the day with day and night temperatures of 30 to 35 degree Celsius and 20 to 23 degree Celsius.

    “For Central states, cloudy morning is expected with chances of thunderstorms over Taraba state.

    “Thunderstorms are likely over a few parts of the region in the afternoon/evening period with day and night temperatures expected to be 25 to 31 and 15 to 24 degree Celsius respectively,” it said.

    According to it, there are prospects of thunderstorms/rains over the Southern states except for southwest inland in the morning where cloudy condition should prevail.

    It envisaged day and night temperatures of the region to be 28 to 31 degree Celsius and 20 to 21 degree Celsius respectively. (NAN)

  • Software: Top time management apps for students

    Software: Top time management apps for students

    1. Trello

    Trello is a perfect productivity improving app available in the play store. It helps to organize any project or task you are assigned, using boards which can be customized either for solo or delegate the task in groups.

    There is even a feature to separate task you are currently working and those you have completed.  It is one of the best task management tools that makes group task easy and fun. Download the app for free now to improve the efficiency and productivity of your work.

    Trello

    2. Google Keep

    A great management tool powered by Google is a note-keeping app that uses a pinboard format to show the list of all the notes you have saved in your Keep. Except for notes, it allows pinning voice memos, list, photos, easy search for others and a lot more.

    The principal feature of the app is that you can set a location-based reminder. Download the app for free and pin all your essential notes in an organized and clean manner.

    Google Keep

    3. Mind42

    The Mind42 app is free software that organizes and stores your ideas with a natural representation of the mind map. It is a great management tool which can be accessed from anywhere either from the app or the website.

    It stores your data in the cloud, so you don’t have to worry about losing your precious ideas. Moreover, you can edit, add or share your mind map, available for offline access and even support media content, thus making it more user-friendly.

    Mind42

    4. Focus@Will

    This is an app that helps you to be 4 times more productive while working either in the office or in college. It helps to focus quickly without being distracted and stay their longer with the help of scientifically optimized music to complete your work efficiently and effectively.

    Focus@will is not any playlist where you can add your favorite music, but music specially designed for improving productivity.

    The music found on this app is unique and the team edits and re-edit to remove all the distracting elements from the track so you can be more efficient and productive in work. The app is free to download, but you have to pay for a subscription after 2 weeks of free trial.

    Focus@Will

    5. Forest

    There are times when you need to put down the phone and enjoy the moments happening around. But still, if you are addicted, Forest app can help you to overcome it.

    The app helps to inculcate good habits with its tools and make it much simpler for you to get rid of your phone temptation.

    It is one of the perfect college apps to develop self-motivation and accomplish all your tasks. The app is available for free to download on both Android and iOS.

    Forest

    6. TimeTree

    Develop the time management skills with the TimeTree, a new type of calendar that manages your plans so that you are always on time. It is an app designed to connect with friends and people with the same interest to build a better future.

    You can share your plan with co-worker, friends, family and a lot more with one calendar. The app is available on play store and was selected as the best app of 2015 in Japan and Korea.

    Download the app now for developing a new habit and coming out of your mobile phone restriction.

    TimeTree

    7. Wunderlist

    It’s a perfect app for managing your daily task whether sharing a shopping list with your roommate, planning for a holiday or managing multiple tasks at a time, Wunderlist will always get your back.

    Along with this, it helps to get assignments done online by sharing it with your co-workers working on the task. Download the app from play store free of cost and get help to manage all your professional and personal to-dos.

    Wunderlist

    8. Venmo

    Venmo is an app used for sending money between friends and even used at many online shopping stores. It is a really interesting app where you can split the bill, split purchase and catch up with your friends feed.

    Venmo is a payment gate app perfect for students. Download the app and apply for MasterCard online right away.

    Venmo

    9. Google Inbox

    Most of the people may not know, but Google has also launched a Google inbox along with Gmail. There are many positive features that differ it from Gmail and win it the love of many users. It provides a way to manage emails with a gesture.

    It does a fabulous job in integrating task with emails. Moreover, it helps to create a reminder which is easily synced with the Gmail for managing the task. Check the latest update for Google inbox on your android device.

    Google Inbox

    10. Wolfram Alpha

    This app with instant knowledge and computation can change the way you work and manage your task. However, the most significant disadvantage is that it is not available for free, and you have to pay some dollar to download it.

    But, the app is worth every penny spent. And, it’s advised to spend this much amount of money because it’s not expensive in comparison to its features.

    Wolfram Alpha

    So, these ten productivity and time management tips and apps are sure the best in terms of managing time and work. Therefore, if you struggle managing your time, these apps are there to cover you; just pick the one from the pool.