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4 steps to fix a broken relationship
This is for people in broken relationships. Relationships that stand on such weak grounds that you don’t really know if you should give this another try or get out of it. A broken relationship is like a deep wound that is a result of constant blows to your soul and heart, unintentionally and at times, intentionally. It is a hard decision but don’t ever give up unless you’ve tried to make it work from every way possible because you don’t want that guilt to linger on after you have broken up. At times many relationships are fragile just because that’s the way they are. It could be a union of two extremely sensitive people or two extremely strong-headed people. So, at times, a few little changes can help you save that relationship.
4. REMIND YOURSELF OF THE PERSON YOU FIRST FELL IN LOVE WITH
You and your partner were not always like this. Remind yourself of the way your partner was, the way you fell in love with them. Over the period of time, small things condition us to adapt and change. Remember, these changes are a result of incidents and external factors in your relationship. Find that faith in your partner again. Believe that there is still the same amount of goodness and love in your partner than when you first met them.
3. STOP FIGHTING, START FORGIVING
You have been fighting for so long and nothing good or positive has come out of it, ever. Your relationship has just gotten worse. All those bad words, hurtful statements and raised voices will only act as those blows that I was talking about. It’s time you stop all of that. Now that you are trying to find the same faith in your partner, forgive them. Know that your partner didn’t mean to hurt you. It’s time you forgive them for hurting you so you can actually work on the things that have damaged to your relationship.
2. IT’S TIME TO COMMUNICATE
Most of us in relationships don’t realise that many issues can be resolved with the right kind of communication. The right kind of communication is when you keep all of your other issues afar from the current situation and address the problem in simple words. Remember not to use a statement that, you know, might offend your partner. Another important action that needs to come into play is to show support. Whether you agree at first or not. Have the patience and courtesy to listen to your partner, even if they are wrong, hear them out and then clear things. Most fights are usually just simple misunderstandings that develop into bigger and badder things.
1. COMMIT YOURSELF AGAIN
Reassure your partner that you still love them. No one in this world can tell your partner how much you love them. Not their friends, not your friends and not even this article. The only person who has the power to reassure this to your partner is YOU. Tell them that you are ready to let go of the things they did to you and ask for forgiveness for the things you did to them. There is no ego when you love someone. Don’t think that asking for forgiveness makes your point any less important. When you forgive your partner and ask for forgiveness, you are allowing them to let go of the things they have been holding on to.
In the end, try and find the spark and the love you both had in the beginning of your relationship. Trust me, it is not that hard if you put your mind to it. We have all been there, I have been there and I eventually learned the hard way so I know its easier said than done. But, Hey! It’s worth a try, your relationship is worth a try.
Source: Rerules.com

October 1, 2019
Independence: PDP hails Nigerians’ resilience, calls for patriotism
By Our Reporter
The Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) has commended Nigerians for their resilience in standing up for the unity and survival of the nation in spite the daunting challenges.
The party gave the commendation in a statement issued by its National Publicity Secretary, Mr Kola Ologbondiyan on Monday in Abuja to commemorate the 59th Independence Anniversary of Nigeria.
Ologbondiyan urged Nigerians to keep hope alive and not surrender to challenges seeking to undermine national cohesion, freedom of citizens and the will of Nigerians.
“The PDP notes that the Oct. 1 date remains an undying signpost of our freedom and unity as a nation.
“It reminds of the roots of our national cohesiveness; the sacrifices of our heroes and our determination to live harmoniously and succeed as one people, in all spheres of human endeavours; a national distinctiveness for which we are known and respected all over the world.
“The party celebrates the resilience and industry of Nigerians in various fields within and outside the shores of our country as well as the fortitude displayed by our citizens to remain united in spite of the odds,’’ he said.
Ologbondiyan said that it was, however, depressing that after 59 years of independence and efforts by patriotic Nigerians in nurturing democratic practice and tenets, the country was facing some challenges.
Ologbondiyan, however, expressed optimism that the nation would eventually come out of the woods.
He urged Nigerians to use the occasion of the independence to rekindle their commitment towards the unity, stability and development of the nation.
He said that the commitment should be rekindled especially as the party was at the Supreme Court to appeal the decision of the Presidential Election Petitions Tribunal.
“The party urges leaders at all levels to be committed and sacrificial in the discharge of their duties and desist from empty promises, rhetoric and propaganda, as Nigerians look up to them for solutions.
“The PDP prays for the stability of our nation and wishes Nigerians happy independence celebrations,” he said (NAN)
October 1, 2019
Buhari to sanction revenue-generating agencies over failure to achieve targets
By Our Reporter
President Muhammadu Buhari has warned that severe consequences await any of the nation revenue-generating agencies that failed to achieve agreed revenue targets.
The president gave the warning in his Independence Day address to mark Nigeria’s 59th Independence Anniversary in Abuja on Tuesday.
He further warned that the revenue-generating and reporting agencies would come under much greater scrutiny so as to achieve the desired goals.
“With this, our revenue-generating and reporting agencies will come under much greater scrutiny, going forward, as the new performance management framework will reward exceptional revenue performance, while severe consequences will attend failures to achieve agreed revenue targets,’’ he said.
Buhari explained that he recently constituted an Economic Advisory Council to advise him on inclusive and sustainable macroeconomic, fiscal and monetary policies.
He said the Council would work with “relevant Cabinet members and the heads of key monetary, fiscal and trade agencies to ensure we remain on track as we strive for collective prosperity’’.
However, the president stated that his administration was also committed to ensure that the inconvenience associated with “any painful policy adjustments, is moderated, such that the poor and the vulnerable, who are most at risk, do not bear the brunt’’.
Buhari assured that the government ongoing N500 billion Special Intervention Programme would continue to target these vulnerable groups.
He said this would be achieved through the Home-grown School Feeding Programme, Government Economic Empowerment Programme, N-Power Job Creation Programme, loans for traders and artisans, Conditional Cash Transfers to the poorest families and social housing scheme.
“To institutionalize these impactful programmes, we created the Ministry for Humanitarian Affairs, Disaster Management and Social Development which shall consolidate and build on our achievements to date.
“To the beneficiaries of these programmes, I want to reassure you that our commitment to social inclusion will only increase,’’ he added.
The president also observed that the nation’s population growth rate had remained among the highest in the world, presenting both challenges as well as opportunities.
“It is our collective responsibility to ensure that we provide adequate resources to meet the basic needs of our teeming youth.
“Accordingly, we shall continue to invest in education, health, water and sanitation, as well as food security, to ensure that their basic needs are met, while providing them with every opportunity to live peaceful, prosperous and productive lives,’’ he maintained. (NAN)
October 1, 2019
Why we moved NDDC from Office of SGF to Niger Delta ministry – Buhari
President Muhammadu Buhari says the recent redeployment of the Niger Delta Development Commission (NDDC), to the Ministry of Niger Delta Affairs is meant to enhance quality of life of people of the region.
The NDDC, prior to the redeployment, was under the supervision of the Office of the Secretary to the Government of the Federation.
The president stated this on Tuesday in Abuja, in a nationwide broadcast to mark the nation’s 59th Independence Anniversary.
He emphasised that the decision underscored his administration’s commitment to improve the living standards of the people in the Niger Delta, through coordinated and appropriate programmes
According to the president, his administration remains equally resolute in its efforts to combat militant attacks on the nation’s oil and gas facilities in the Niger Delta and accelerate the Ogoni Clean-up to address long-standing environmental challenges in that region.
The president also said that the Ministry of Police Affairs had been resuscitated to oversee the development and implementation of strategies to enhance internal security.
“My recent assent to the Nigerian Police Trust Fund (Establishment) Act has created a legal framework to support our Police with increased fiscal resources to enhance their law enforcement capabilities.
“These initiatives are being complemented by the ongoing recruitment of 10,000 constables into the Nigeria Police Force.
“This clearly demonstrates our commitment to arrest the incidence of armed robbery, kidnapping and other violent crimes across our nation,’’ he added.(NAN)
October 1, 2019
Our journey to food security is well underway, Buhari assures Nigerians
By Our Reporter
President Muhammadu Buhari says his administration has made remarkable progress in the agriculture value chain, from fertilizers to rice, to animal feed production towards the Nation’s food security.
The president, who revealed this in his Independence Day broadcast on Tuesday, warned that the country must not “go back to the days of importing food and thereby exporting jobs’’.
He pledged that his administration would sustain its agricultural policies aimed at making the country self-sufficient in food production through massive investments in agriculture as well as the use of modern agricultural inputs and implements.
“We shall sustain these policies to ensure additional investments are channeled, thereby creating more jobs in the sector.
“We must not go back to the days of importing food and thereby exporting jobs,’’ he added.
Buhari observed that his administration’s commitment to achieving macroeconomic stability and economic diversification, had been underscored by the merger of the Ministry of Finance with the Ministry of Budget and National Planning.
“This combined Ministry has the important mandate to enhance the management of domestic and global fiscal risks; coordinate policies with the trade and monetary authorities; raise and deploy revenues to fund budgeted expenditure; and integrate annual budgets and medium-term fiscal strategies,’’ he said.
The President, who reiterated his call for unity across the diverse socio-ethnic groups in the country, expressed the hope that Nigeria would emerge from its “present challenges stronger and more resilient than ever’’.
He said: “Nigeria will emerge from our present challenges stronger and more resilient than ever – but only if all of us join hands to entrench Good Governance, foster Inclusive Economic Development, and defend and protect our Nation from all those who would wish us ill.’’(NAN)
October 1, 2019
7 Signs You’re in a Bad Relationship
It’s key that you know the signs you’re in a bad relationship for your emotional and mental health. Being in a bad relationship is damaging for your self esteem and self image as well as for your partner. Most importantly, it’s not worth your time or efforts to be in a bad relationship. To save you time and grief, here are a few signs you’re in a bad relationship.
1. TRUST ISSUES
One of the signs you’re in a bad relationship is that there are several trust issues. Trust issues can vary from “small” things, such as your partner, or yourself, going through each other’s phones to filter through contacts and text messages, to bigger scenarios, such as asking for proof of where you are and whom you’re with.
2. LYING
Another obvious sign you’re in a bad relationship is that there is a lot of lying going on. Either one of you may lie about your feelings for one another, whom you’re going out with or anything that directly affects the relationship. The point is that lying with poor intentions is a sign you’re in a poor relationship.
3. CHEATING
Cheating is the most blatant sign you are in a bad relationship. Being in an open relationship is different if both parties understand and agree on the terms of the relationship. However, cheating is usually when one or both parties are unfaithful to the other in a discreet manner. Thoughts of cheating are also a dangerous warning sign of events that are to come.
4. ABUSIVE
Nothing gets a message across clearer than using your words. Therefore, there is never a reason to get physical with a partner regardless of whose fault it was. There is never a single exception to when violence should be used in any type of relationship or scenario. If you are a victim of abuse, reach out to someone whether, it is the police, a friend or a family member, or a co-worker. On another note, there is also emotional and mental abuse, which is equally unacceptable.
5. NO TIME
If you and your partner live within 30-40 minutes and aren’t seeing each other a reasonable amount per month, it’s time to ask yourself why. It’s easy to make excuses and say that your schedules are conflicting, but even if that’s true there are always solutions to conflicting schedules, such as trying to align your days off. In fact, every problem in life has a solution but if neither of you are looking for solutions to make more time for one another, it’s time to honestly evaluate your relationship.
6. NO TITLE
If you’ve been dating someone exclusively for a few weeks to a few months and there is no title or label of what the two of you are, that’s totally fine. However, if you’re reaching an anniversary in your relationship, such as a 6 month anniversary, or one year, and he/she is still not introducing you as their partner to their friends and family, or it’s still unclear what the two of you are and what the terms of your relationships are, then most likely one or both of you know the relationship isn’t going anywhere for much longer.
7. MORE BAD TIMES THAN GOOD
Sure, the good times are great, but what if the bad times are worse and frequent? If so, it’s time to say goodbye. Relationship lows include prolonged fighting, several “breaks,” affairs or cheating, abuse, etc… Most of the aforementioned things should only happen once before you decide to leave. However, if you decide to go back and these occurrences continue to happen, it only goes to show your relationship has a dangerous and destructive pattern to it.
Source: allwomenstalk.com

October 1, 2019
We’ve saved billions of Naira from implementation of IPPIS, other reforms – FG
By Our Reporter
President Muhammadu Buhari on Tuesday said the introduction of the Integrated Personnel and Information System (IPPIS) by Federal Government saved Nigeria billions of Naira over the last four years.
He said that it had also deterred the rampant theft and mismanagement of public funds.
Buhari stated this in a nationwide broadcast to Nigerians at the country’s 59th Independence Day Anniversary celebration in Abuja.
He said the strict enforcement of the Treasury Single Account (TSA) policy and the Whistle-blowers’ initiative had also helped in checking corrupt practices in the public service.
According to him, his administration is determined to ensure that transparency and good governance are institutionalised in public service.
To this end, he said, the Ministry of Justice, the Independent Corrupt Practices Commission (ICPC) and the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC) would continue to address the menace of corruption in the country.
“We must commit to instilling a culture of good governance in all we do. This administration has fought corruption by investigating and prosecuting those accused of embezzlement and misuse of public resources.
“We have empowered teams of prosecutors, assembled detailed databases of evidence, traced the proceeds of crimes and accelerated the recovery of stolen funds.
“Furthermore, we partnered with our friends abroad to combat tax evasion, smuggling, terrorism and illicit financial flows.
“In June 2018, I assented to the Mutual Assistance in Criminal Matters Act to provide a domestic legal framework for obtaining international assistance in criminal matters.
“This measure has already strengthened our law enforcement agencies in obtaining evidence, investigating suspects and facilitating the recovery, forfeiture and confiscation of property implicated as proceeds of crime.
“An example is the 300 million dollars recently identified as part of the Abacha money-laundering case, working closely with the Government of the United States of America.
“The Federal Ministry of Justice is working with the U.S. Department of Justice to conclude a Memorandum of Understanding to expedite the repatriation of these funds,’’ he said.
The president noted that the P & ID Arbitral Award had underscored the manner in which significant economic damage had been caused by the past activities of a few corrupt and unpatriotic Nigerians.
He said: “The policies that we are putting in place today are to ensure such criminal and unpatriotic acts do not go without consequences.
“Our renewed partnership with the 9th National Assembly will facilitate the swift passage of enabling laws that will institutionalise these anti-corruption efforts in our criminal justice system.’’
Buhari enjoined state and local governments to intensify efforts toward instilling greater fiscal transparency and accountability, and to ensure “greater fiscal efficiency and optimum use of our very scarce resources.
“The blight of corruption is fighting back. Nevertheless, this is a battle that we shall see through and this is a war, which we shall win by the Grace of God’’.
He also called on Nigerians from every walk of life to combat corruption at every turn “by choosing to question and confront corrupt practices, by reporting unethical practices or through whistleblowing.
“Together, we can overcome corruption and will no longer be a country defined by corruption.” (NAN)
October 1, 2019
Small romantic gestures that make a long lasting relationship
Every relationship is different in nature, so what works for one couple may not work for another. Have you ever thought what the secret of long-lasting marriages is? Other than the circumstances, as per the experts, the secret of long-lasting marriages is the small gestures! One of the best ways to ensure your relationship lasts forever is by making small things count. While people often try to do something huge for their partner, they forget to nurture their relationship with small gestures, which are definitely not going to become a burden on them.
In fact, several studies have also proved that showing small gestures is a key to long-lasting love. No one can deny the power of simple romantic gestures. You just need to express your love through small things and it will keep your relationship smooth. Give time, ditch the monotony and indulge yourselves in renewing your bond with your partner. Say “I love you” through your actions, not words.
So, here are some ostensibly small things that you can do for your partner, it will leave a big impact on your relationship or will make your marriage long lasting.
Show love with small gestures:
There are many five minute hacks that you can do daily to make your spouse feel more loved. For instance, you can write a small love note for your partner, hold their hand and say some naughty things or you can hug them and kiss them You can even debrief your spouse about the whole day. If your partner is in stress, listen to your partner and express empathy without offering judgments or solutions.
1. Make a habit to connect daily:
Spend at least 15-20 minutes daily and have a stress-reducing conversation with your partner. If you are living in a joint family, examine the schedules of your family members and determine a reliable time that you can spend time alone with your partner. Consider eating one meal a day together, it will enhance your communication.
You can even make a habit to connect daily, such as a six-second kiss before leaving the house or when coming home, or making sure to text each other throughout the day with positive, loving messages to help you both feel connected.
2. Make a habit of using polite words:
What would you like to do if you had a fight? Do you want to go to bed resentful, or would you prefer cuddling with your partner after repairing an argument? As per the studies, couples who apologize when they have hurt their partner’s feelings and ask for forgiveness have a more successful marriage.
An apology after an argument decreases tension and make you feel more connected to your partner.
3. Support each other:
Supporting each other is a lifetime plan which includes helping each other in making any plan, to complete a task, achieving a goal or manage time. These are the positive actions, which lead to interdependence; while you coordinate, you create a sense of purpose and shared meaning in your marriage. Remember a daily act of kindness is more than celebrating big events.
It is the most important gesture of connection!
4. Express love through action:
Behaviour speaks much louder than words. A warm hug and kiss can simply be magical without saying a word. Make a habit to pay attention to each other on a regular basis and intentionally turn towards each other’s bids for connection. Even if you have children, try to go out for dinner at least once or twice a month and keep sending each other a loving text message during the day.
In order to make your marriage long lasting, you need to put effort into spending quality time together. Responding positively to each other will help you bring out the best in one another. Hence, the gift is going to be the best surprise for your partner.
October 1, 2019
Let us remain hopeful, steadfast for a better Nigeria – Delta speaker
By Our Reporter
The Speaker of Delta House of Assembly, Chief Sheriff Oborevwori, has urged Nigerians to remain hopeful and steadfast for a better nation.
Oborevwori made the call in a statement by his Chief Press Secretary, Mr Dennis Otu in Asaba on Tuesday to mark the 59th Independence anniversary of the Nigeria.
He stated that “there is a bright future for the country, as we remain hopeful and steadfast, I implore Nigerians to continue to pray for the peace and unity of the country, as well as our leaders to achieve a better Nigeria.
“I want to congratulate fellow Nigerians on the 59th Independence Anniversary of our country.
”As we celebrate, let us continue to pray for the unity of the country and our leaders at all levels.
“We have faired very well as a nation and as people since the attainment of independence 59 years ago and therefore, must join forces to make our nation great because Nigerians are great people.
“Let us build on the remarkable achievements we made over the years. God bless our beloved Country.” (NAN)
October 1, 2019
Buhari directs release of N600bn for capital projects
By Our Reporter
President Muhammadu Buhari has directed the Ministry of Finance, Budget and National Planning to release N600 billion for Capital Expenditure in the next three months.
The President gave the directive in his nationwide broadcast to mark the Nigeria’s 59th Independence Anniversary on Tuesday in Abuja.
He stated that the directive was informed by his administration’s desire to significantly increase investments in the nation critical infrastructure.
According to him, the implementation of the 2019 Capital Budget, which was only approved in June 2019, will be accelerated to ensure that critical priority projects are completed or substantially addressed.
He revealed that the Federal Government had so far released N1.74trillion for execution of various capital projects in the 2018 fiscal year.
“In this regard, we are significantly increasing investments in critical infrastructure. Last year, capital releases only commenced with the approval of the Budget in June 2018.
“However, as at 20th June this year, up to N1.74 trillion had been released for capital projects in the 2018 fiscal year,’’ he said.
The president noted that the exchange rate in the last three years had remained stable, with robust reserves of 42.5 billion dollars, up from 23 billion dollars in Oct. 2016.
He added that, to maximise impact, the federal government would continue to increasingly welcome and encourage private capital for infrastructure development through Public Private Partnerships.
“Through the Road Infrastructure Tax Credit Scheme, which I initiated in January this year, we are giving incentives to private sector inflow of over N205 billion in 19 Nigerian roads and bridges of 794.4km across in 11 States of the Federation.
“As we push to diversify the economy, we still remain focused on optimising the revenues generated from the oil and gas sector.
“We will, working with the Legislature, soon pass the Petroleum Industry Bill and amendments to the Deep Offshore Act and Inland Basin Production Sharing Contracts Act into law, to ensure Government obtains a fair share of oil revenues, whilst encouraging private sector investment,’’ he said.
Buhari maintained that his administration would also continue the fight against illegal bunkering of crude oil and the smuggling of refined petroleum products across the borders.
He said this would include the diligent prosecution and conviction of offenders found guilty of these acts.
“Whilst Nigeria remains committed to free and fair continental and international trade, we will not hesitate to take all necessary steps to tackle illegal smuggling, transshipment and other predatory trade practices that destroy jobs in our country,’’ the president added.
On power, Buhari reiterated his administration’s determination to reform the power sector to ensure speedy socio-economic transformation across the country.
“We are resolute in reforming the power sector. In August this year, we launched the Presidential Power Initiative to modernize the National Grid in 3 phases: starting from 5 Gigawatts to 7 Gigawatts, then to 11 Gigawatts by 2023, and finally 25 Gigawatts afterwards.
“This programme, in partnership with the German Government and Siemens, will provide end-to-end electrification solutions that will resolve our transmission and distribution challenges,’’ he disclosed.
According to him, the programme will also localise the development and assembly of smart meters as well as the operations and maintenance capabilities of transmission and distribution infrastructure.
He expressed delight with the improved inter-agency collaboration between the Ministry of Power and the regulators in the banking and power sectors to ensure that electricity sales, billings and collections were automated and become cashless.
“These initiatives are important to ensure that the technical and collection losses in the sector are substantially reduced.
“I remain confident that Nigerians will have affordable and uninterrupted electricity supply in the not too distant future.
“Our efforts to improve the power sector will complement other infrastructure investments projects under the Presidential Infrastructure Development Fund,’’ he said.
He acknowledged that the fund was investing in the Mambilla Power Plant project, as well as key economic road infrastructure such as the Lagos-Ibadan Expressway, Second Niger Bridge and Abuja-Kano Expressway.
The President expressed optimism that the first set of these projects remain on track to be completed by 2022. (NAN)
October 1, 2019