Here are sure signs he isn’t into you and he’s blowing you off.
1. NEVER ANSWERS HIS PHONE
One clear sign a guy is blowing you off that a lot of women actually overlook is when a man never, ever answers his phone. Do you constantly find yourself getting his voicemail? Have you gone to voicemail directly without the phone even ringing? That’s a sign ladies and one that you should take seriously. This is especially true if it’s your crush or even your boyfriend.
2. TOO BUSY TO GO OUT WITH YOU
If your crush is constantly stating that he is just too busy to make plans, or that he is too busy to go to dinner or a movie with you, it could be a clear sign he is blowing you off. Ladies, if a guy really likes you, he’ll make time for you and make sure that he gets in touch with you. You should never be waiting on a guy and shouldn’t have to worry if he is going to be too busy to hang out with you.
3. NEVER CONFIRMS PLANS
Another tell-tale sign a guy is blowing you off is that he never, ever confirmed plans with you. He might not state that he is busy, but he is constantly telling you that he has to check his schedule or that he has to make sure that he is free. He never allows himself to confirm plans on the spot or even at a later date.
4. IF HE CALLS BACK, IT TAKES OVER 24 HOURS
Let’s say that you’ve called the guy you like multiple times to confirm plans or even just to talk. If it takes over 24 hours for the guy to even get in touch with you via text, Facebook or by calling, it can be a sign he is blowing you off. How long do you typically wait to call your crush back if he does manage to call you? Right away, typically? If the guy likes you, he’ll find a way to get in touch with you, quickly.
5. DISTRACTED WHEN HE IS WITH YOU
When you do finally pin him down for plans, does he constantly seem distracted? Is he looking at his phone more than you? This isn’t something that should be happening if he is into you!
6. DOESN’T LIKE TO BE ALONE WITH YOU
How about being alone with him? Does it happen …? Probably not, right? That’s because he feels more comfortable when you two are with a crowd of people versus being alone. That is a sign that he isn’t into you and that maybe he is blowing you off completely.
7. NO FLIRTING AT ALL
How is the flirting? Not really there, right? Well, that’s probably because he is more interested in the girl that is across the bar versus you. It’s hard to hear, but it is something that you should really consider, so you can move on and find someone that isn’t going to blow you off!
8. ACTS DISINTERESTED
While him being distracted and him being disinterested seem the same, they aren’t. Are you always the first to text him? Always the first to ask about his day? Keep that in mind, because truthfully, that’s a sign that he’s not only not into you, but he is completely blowing you off!
9. NOT INTO HOW YOUR DAY WAS
While you might want to find out exactly how his day was and what he did that day, if he doesn’t provide you with the same questions or act at all interested in how your day was, why try to get with him? Why try to even ask him any questions?
10. DOESN’T ASK OPENED ENDED QUESTIONS
Finally, open ended questions are important when you are trying to be together or even trying to form a friendship or a relationship. If he isn’t asking those questions, you need to move on and find someone that isn’t going to constantly blow you off.
Now that you know all of the signs he is blowing you off, you’ll be able to spot it!
