Women just want to be loved, but a lot of times, men don’t get it and end up going about things the wrong way. If you’re a man who’s highly interested in showing your partner love in the right ways, keep reading. Below, I’ve listed a few things your woman wishes you’d do, but might not say or has gotten tired of saying.
1 – Be her hype man: Your girl comes out of the room looking stunning? You better Yass queen the hell out of her until she can’t take it anymore. She posts a fire picture on the gram? Drop as many lovestruck emojis as you can. She just got a promotion? Sing her praises to anyone who wants to hear. She’s starting a new business? Remind her of the badass she is and how she can do whatever she sets her mind to. In short, hype her up whenever you get the chance to.
2 – Match outfits with her:
Why do you think she keeps getting you stuff she gets for herself? Why do you think she keeps showing you cute pictures of couples matching? Bro, do better.
3 – Take cute couple photos and post on the gram: The other couples that take cute pictures to pepper the rest of us single people don’t have two heads, so why are you refusing to post your woman? Why do you roll your eyes every time she wants to take photos? Don’t annoy me, please.
4 – Talk about your feelings more often: One of the annoying things men do is shut their feelings away and not talk about things that bother them. This is so annoying. Your girl wants to hear EVERYTHING. Tell her how you feel about her, talk about your deepest fears, the last time you cried, etc. Just don’t hold it back.
5 – Constantly reassure her: We all have our insecurities and the worst thing you can do to the woman you love is feed them. If she’s uncomfortable about a situation, let her know you’re working on fixing it, show her that her concerns matter. Don’t just be an annoying bullheaded guy that is stuck in his ways and blind to all her concerns.
6 – Send her sweet messages: Duh, who doesn’t like sweet messages? You better be waking your girl up with adoring messages, reminding her that she’s the most beautiful star you’ve ever been blinded by.
7 – Surprise her often:
Honestly, women love surprises, and I’m speaking on behalf of myself and many other women. It’s not always about outrageously expensive things, it’s the little things, sir. Show up at her office, send her a box of chocolates, treat her to a well-planned birthday surprise, take her to that concert she randomly mentioned she’d love to attend. One of my most memorable birthdays so far is the one where I was treated to a surprise ‘happy birthday’ song by his entire family. Fam, there were over 20 people singing to me as I walked into the house and I couldn’t not cry.
8 – Cook for her sometimes: Not every time ‘cook something nice for us, babe’, sometimes, cook it yourself and give her a treat. Let her enjoy too. You’re not the only one that likes sweet food, haba. She has long days too, she also deserves to come back home and carry her legs up, while you whip up something nice in the kitchen.
9 – Quit the unnecessary jealousy: Honestly, can you men stop the unnecessary jealousy? It gets tiry and choking. And honestly, ain’t nobody got time to be dealing with ‘why is Gbenga sending you a kiss emoji at this time?’ After a long day of dealing with annoying clients. Please dear, we love you, but let us breathe sometimes.
I could go on and on and on about all the things women wish their men would do more often, but the list would never end. I think one thing that’s really important at the end of the day is communication. Talk to your partner, get to know what they like and love them exactly how they want to be loved.