A number of things can render one unattractive during a date, most times, without the person even knowing. You may think dressing up to kill and impeccable grooming is enough, well it’s not until you do away with the following:
1. Your Attitude
When it comes to dating, there is no such thing as “fake it ’til you make it,” says Gonzalez. “Whether you’re online dating or meet someone through a friend or at a bar, people can smell fakeness,”
2. Too Much Personality (Show off)
Although it may seem like dating means putting your best foot (or face?) forward and showing off your assets, don’t discount the importance of humility.
“The most attractive thing to me is humility, so when a guy I went on a first date years ago bragged about his six-figure salary and BMW, I threw up a little in my mouth,” admits Gonzalez.
3. Bad Grammar
Yes , that’s right. A bad grasp of the English language or maybe whatever language you’re using to woo a potential mate can be a turn off to a romantic interest, especially if you’re active in the online dating arena.
So next time you are on a date try to do away with those attributes, relax, be yourself and try to enjoy the situation. And work on your grammar, it helps!
