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4 reasons men lost interest in relationships

Men do lose interest in relationships and this is caused by a number of factors such as lack of excitement, romance, spontaneity, constant nagging, presence of another woman and so on.

Here are a number of reasons why your once doting man becomes uninterested and seemingly bored:

1. Being too clingy

While it may seem strange, there is such a thing as too much intimacy. When you first start dating someone and are still in the “honeymoon” period, it’s natural to want to spend as much time as possible with your romantic partner. It’s important to remember, though, that distance is key to making your relationship survive. Think of it this way: he can’t miss you if you never leave. If you keep seeing each other twenty-four hours a day, then there is a strong possibility that your boyfriend or husband will get bored.

Create healthy space in the relationship, this can be achieved through communication. Hang out with friends and family during periods of distance between you and your boyfriend or husband.

2. Presence of another woman

This is one of the major reasons why men get bored in their present relationship. If your man meets another desirable woman, then there is a great possibility that he will be drawn towards catching her interest. You may notice his restlessness as he thinks less about you.

Well you could take your partner’s mind away from other women by creating excitement such as trying exciting things during intimacy, going on dates, flirt, engage in playful banter and so on. Just act as if you both are still trying to woo each other.

3. Unresolved agreement

Irreconcilable differences are also among the major reasons that couples give up. Too many unnecessary arguments and fights that are triggered by small things—like him leaving the toilet seat up or you making commitments for him without asking first—can cause a lot of relationship stress. Being unable to resolve or negotiate your differences may also cause your man to want to spend time with friends or by himself instead of you.

If you want to save your relationship despite your unresolved differences and your regular fights, then you have to make sure that you learn how to communicate and you try to change yourself for the better. This does not mean that you should change everything about yourself. What you need to do is to make those changes that can transform you into a better person.

Engage in effective communication with each other while being loving, compassionate and showing empathy to each other’s feelings. Tactfully express how you feel and with a desire to resolve issues.

4. Constant nagging

Most men want to avoid women who nag excessively. At the start of any romantic relationship, most women make it a point to show to their partner that they are carefree and outgoing and may be willing to let certain things go. But as the relationship progresses and each depends more on the other, some nagging inevitably takes place. No one likes to think of herself as a “nagger,” but if you often think to yourself, “it’s in one ear and out the other,” then that might be a sign you’ve fallen into the trap of nagging.

Nagging can become a vicious cycle: it makes the “nagee” less generous and less inclined to help, which leads to more nagging since the nagger’s needs aren’t being met.

Even reminders or hints that are intended to be helpful could be perceived by your partner as nagging if they offend him. Your husband may interpret repeated reminders to pick up your kids from school at 3:00 as evidence you think he’s incompetent or doesn’t care about his kids.

Be considerate or sensitive with words, approach situations with a mindset of finding solutions and be always appreciative of your boyfriend or husband.

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