x

5 Habits to lose in order to find true love

It may seem you always fall in love with the wrong persons but have you stopped to check whether you are the reason for your problems? Moreover, it is important you assess yourself dispassionately to see if you really are the kind of person who should even be taken as they are or not.

Well, here are habits one need to lose in order to find his or her true love:

1. Self esteem issues

When you keep the thought in your mind that that babe is ‘way out of your league’ or that guy ‘is too good for you,’ you limit yourself greatly in the dating game.

 Here's how to become better at dating
While it is never a good thing to be cocky or too full of yourself, it also a terrible, terrible idea to put yourself so low to the point of thinking you are not good enough for the great guys, or ladies.

You deserve the best, and until you get this into your mind, you’ll still be limited to the jerks and bad relationships.

2. Stop being too picky

Perfection is actually over-hyped, so stop finding fault with everything and everybody.

 
By being overly picky, you’re going to drive away loads of great people who just have little creases that you could have helped them iron out.

3. Undefined goals

Why are you looking to date without an idea of what you want in mind?

No matter how vague or unclear it might seem [depending on how much you have been disappointed], you just need to have one idea in mind of what you want from potential partners or lovers.

Sort out what you want, and the rest should come less difficultly.

 

4. Drop the desperation

Somehow, desperation reeks and people can always spot it.

You do not want to be that guy whose desperation can be smelled from a mile away, or the girl nobody wants because they know you’re desperate to marry and settle down.

So cut it out and be calm, will you?

5. Refusal to compromise

You won’t always get what you want all the time. Knowing what to let go of, and what to not budge over is very important.

Hot this week

Near-Death Stories: Celebrities Who Escaped Death on Nigerian Roads

Road accidents remain one of the deadliest hazards on...

OLUSEGUN AWOLOWO (1963-2025) AND THE LEGACY OF PRINCELY SERVICE

By: Amb Godknows IgaliThe sudden departure of...

2027 Polls: My Support for Asiwaju Tinubu Is Unconditional, Wike Reaffirms

By Joyce Remi-BabayejuThe FCT Minister, Barr. Nyesom Wike vowed...

National Assembly Orders Re-Gazetting of Tax Reform Laws

The National Assembly has directed the re-gazetting of four...

Nigeria’s Post-Subsidy Economy: Six Months On, Who Is Coping and Who Is Not?

By Daudu Agaba Andrew SamuelSix months after Nigeria removed...

A’ibom LGAs still poverty centres-CHRAN

By Ogenyi Ogenyi, UyoCenter for Human Rights and Accountability...

Obi Dumps Labour Party for ADC, Rallies Opposition Ahead of 2027

Former Labour Party presidential candidate in the 2023 general...

VeryDarkMan Reacts After Spotting Seyi Tinubu’s Poster in Morocco

Social media activist Martins Otse, popularly known as VeryDarkMan,...

10 States Plan N4.3tn Borrowing to Fund 2026 Budgets

Ten states are planning to raise about N4.287tn through...

PDP Crisis Can Be Resolved in One Week — Olawepo-Hashim

A former presidential candidate of the Peoples Democratic Party...

Baiting the Dragon’s Fire: U.S- Taiwan Arms Deal Sparks China’s Fury

By Dr. Austin MahoThe US recently approved an $11.1...

Related Articles

Popular Categories

spot_imgspot_img