Falling in love is a wonderful feeling. This kind of desire is beautiful, healthy, and very natural.
Men fall in love with women who intrigue them and who touch them on a profound level. And pretty looks, short skirts or even push-up bras cannot create that kind of attraction.
With that said, here are 3 surprising ways to get a guy to like you and fall for you hard.
1. Your passion
A woman who is deeply passionate about something is charismatic and profoundly attractive to a man.
And it doesn’t usually matter what her passion is — it can be playing the cello or collecting Tupperware. He will find it exciting or even mesmerizing to witness her indulging in her passion or talking about something that gives her so much joy, something that she immerses herself in completely.
The reason why so many women get this wrong is that we’re conditioned to be pleasers. When a woman wants to impress a guy, she’ll adopt his passions and activities.
But men see through this, lose attraction, and walk away.
So, instead of bending yourself backward to show him that the two of you are alike, express yourself truly and authentically, pour your attention into what you love and what makes your heart sing.
I assure you that he will notice and admire your passion.
2. Your authenticity
Most women deeply desire to be in a relationship, they want to love someone and to be loved in return.
In order to achieve that, they might be willing to sacrifice their own views, opinions, and dreams if these are not aligned with decisions or views of the man they have an eye on.
But what men typically find attractive is a woman who is fiercely committed to what she believes in and who won’t bend to please others.
We all need to be open to negotiation and a change of plans from time to time. But, if you want him to stay by your side, show him that you have a spine and that you can make choices for yourself.
3. Your femininity
Our culture encourages women to be successful, independent and career-driven. We value results, efficiency, fast pace, and hard work.
But, the essence of a woman is to flow, to be connected to her feelings and her heart, instead of only living in her head.
Women are usually softer than men, more emotional and go through cyclical changes aligned with their hormones and feelings. They’re intuitive and not always reasonable. To deny that aspect of a woman is to deny her true nature.
Let go of the need to adhere to society’s standards and show him your feminine essence.
