By Joyce Remi-Babayeju
As Nigeria celebrates the 2025 Mothering Sunday, the Chief Executive Officer of Wise Women Order Empowerment, WWOE, and Gender Counselor l, Mrs. Ayobami Yohanna has urged women to give sex freely their husbands every day.
Yohanna who is also an entrepreneur, wife and mother made this call in Abuja on Sunday as a guest speaker at a Non-Governmental Organization, NGO, Prestigious Sisters Club, Abuja.
The Gender Counselor spoke on the topic ” Who is a Woman”, and stated that conjugal rights means that women should give sex free of charge to their husbands.
Yohanna said, ” conjual rights “means that you should give him sex free of charge. Your dowry was paid. This makes the journey free. Get used to it while you are young.”
Regular Sex makes you younger, and you stress-free, she said.
She confessed that she was also reoriented about sex, and that has changed her orientation about sex.
She called on younger women to make regular sex possible for their husbands, adding that it helps to prevent prostate cancer in men and helps men to stay younger.
She emphasized that women need more sex before they hit menopause, so they have to do it while it lasts.
However, the Counselor advised women to work on themselves to be able to make their conjugal journey easier, as she stressed the need to give it freely for both partners to enjoy it.
Speaking on the ills of female genital mutilation, FGM, the Gender Counselor condemned the act totally.
She called on the government to stop FGM outrightly because of its negative impact on the women , particularly as it affects their conjugal responsibility.
“My message to Nigerian women on this Mothering Sunday and indeed, the International Women’s Day which was celebrated on this month of March, is that women should prioritize their homes above every other endeavour.”
“Women should learn how to manage their homes which is inclusive of their husbands and children”, Yohanna advised.
A Medical Expert, Dr. Samuel Imioh, with the Wise Women Order Empowerment, Dr. Samuel Imoni, spoke with Daybreak further emphasized the importance and need for women to help their husbands through regular sex, but otherwise they can do it two to three times a week.
Samuel argued that for women who cannot afford to do it regularly due to health challenges. They can seek medical advice for them to equally experience enjoyable sex journey.
According to him, women in their fifties and above tend to have higher libido and for those who have lower libido should also seek medical intervention.
And for pregnant and lactating women, they can engage in other forms of alternative sexual acts that is based on mutual understanding by both partners, he advised.
President of Prestigious Sisters Club, Abuja, Mrs. Blessing Ijeoma, expressed joy at the counselling, adding that it has impacted meaningfully on the women.
She noted that the advice which coincides with the IWD and Mothering Sunday celebration has exposed women to the dangers of not engaging seriously in regular sex with their husbands and the overall consequences on their homes and their roles as wives.
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