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What to Say and Not Say to Someone Feeling Depressed

By  Milcah   Tanimu

Depression is more than sadness; it’s a profound struggle that can leave someone feeling helpless and alone. Supporting someone with depression requires empathy, patience, and a willingness to listen. Often, your presence matters more than finding the “perfect” words.

What to Say

  1. “I’m here for you.”
    Let them know they’re not alone. Your presence, even without solutions, can bring comfort.
  2. “It’s okay to feel this way.”
    Validate their emotions. Remind them it’s okay to struggle and express how they feel.
  3. “Do you want to talk about it?”
    Offer a listening ear. Let them share at their pace, without pressure.
  4. “You’re not alone in this.”
    Reassure them of your support to ease their sense of isolation.
  5. “What can I do to support you?”
    Ask how you can help, whether through practical tasks or quiet companionship.

What Not to Say

  1. “Just snap out of it.”
    Depression isn’t something they can quickly overcome. This comment feels dismissive.
  2. “Other people have it worse.”
    Comparing struggles invalidates their feelings and shows a lack of empathy.
  3. “You should be grateful for what you have.”
    This statement adds guilt to their existing pain and oversimplifies their experience.
  4. “You just need to stay positive.”
    While positivity helps, depression often makes it unattainable.
  5. “You don’t look depressed.”
    Depression isn’t always visible. Comments like this can make them feel their struggles aren’t valid.

How to Truly Help

Support isn’t about fixing them; it’s about being present and understanding. Listen, show patience, and remind them they’re not alone. Your compassion can be a powerful step in their journey toward healing.

 

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