Probably you have misgivings about your partner’s fidelity, especially in respect to his/her relationship with his/her co-worker(s). Well, here are helpful signs on whether your partner is cheating with someone at work or not.
1. Your partner has been working long hours
While this isn’t a definite sure sign your partner is having an affair with a co-worker, it’s important you consider their current role, and past work behavior. For instance, is your partner suddenly working into the wee morning hours, after years of coming home at a certain time every single night? If there’s no logical reason, such as needing to meet a deadline or having to put in extra hours after landing a big promotion, your BS meter should be through the roof. If there are strange changes and your intuition kicks in, trust it.
2. Work gets in the way of working together as a couple
Unless you’re lucky enough to have a money tree in your backyard, chances are you and your partner work hard to support your current lifestyle. But as we mentioned earlier, there are certain circumstances you should be wary of. Let’s say your partner is working a ton, for instance; way too much for your liking.
Well, according to About Dating & Relationships, another sign of an unfaithful partner is the failure to work with you to make the relationship better. If your partner’s work life is taking precedence over that, there’s reason to give pause.
3. He or she frequently travels for business
Just because your partner travels for business doesn’t mean they’re cheating. If they’re mysteriously always out of battery or refuse to provide you with hotel contact information when they’re out of town, however, then something might be up.
4. Your partner dresses up for work (enough to raise suspicion)
We realize we have some explaining to do with this one. After all, what kind of professional person wouldn’t want to look their best at work? But, getting too gussied up, beyond what’s normal for them, may be cause for concern. According to The Chart, dressing up for work, and caring more about presentation than whether you find them attractive may be something to pay attention to.
If suits suddenly turn into low cut tops that just aren’t typical of your partner’s personal style, you might want to do a little light prodding. Maybe your partner is just going through a bit of a reformation, or maybe they’re trying to impress someone else. Either way, it’s your call whether you want to bring it up.
5. Your significant other isn’t confiding in you as much
If you’ve noticed your partner hasn’t been as emotionally available lately, or he or she isn’t as talkative as normal, it may be because their issues are being shared with someone else, like a co-worker. In fact, your partner may have created a unique intimacy with another person, which means you’ve been cut out at home. This kind of action on their part can quickly result in a total loss of communication between the two of you. And of course, communication is key in any healthy relationship.
6. Co-workers are frequently mentioned, or intentionally avoided
As long as your observation skills are somewhat present, it’s likely your partner won’t be able to hide his or her reaction when the name of a certain someone comes up. For instance, if the very mention of this co-worker’s name gets a reaction — regardless of who dropped the name in the first place — it may tip you off to what you’ve suspected all along.
7. You sense a love-hate relationship between them
If you already have a person in mind, it’s likely you’ve been extra interested to hear any and all information your partner is willing to divulge about them. And just as we mentioned before, you’re probably picking up on some pretty serious clues.
8. Your partner has developed a strong emotional connection with a co-worker
This can seem difficult to know for sure, but if your gut is telling you so, there’s a good chance you should listen to it. Sure, it’s possible to have close relationships outside of your partner, but it’s when those relationships cross the line of platonic that it becomes an issue.
9. Your partner’s co-workers are gossiping
You know that feeling when you walk into a room, and it’s clear everyone’s been talking about you? It’s as though they’re all in on some big secret you’re not allowed to be a part of. If you have a sense your partner’s co-workers are talking about you, they probably are, and maybe it’s about an affair that’s going on behind your back.
10. Your partner starts talking about finding a new place to work
Of course, career paths change, and people have goals they’re working toward. But if your partner suddenly announces he or she is dead set on leaving the company ASAP without any reasonable explanation, you should be a little suspicious.
Even if you never caught your partner in the act, they may be trying to end things and get back on track with you. Thus, their best exit strategy could be to move on to an entirely new position, company, or career. Will this last-ditch effort be enough to save your relationship? That’s for you to decide.
