1. Be there when she needs someone
If she needs someone by her side, make sure it’s you. It will show her how committed, dependable and serious you are about having her in your life and wanting to be in hers. Don’t give any excuse when she needs you to be with her to cry or laugh with. When you always provide her needs, that will send a positive message to her brain that you will always be with her after you totally gained her heart.
2. Make her feel special
If she is having a bad day, let her vent to you and be supportive about it. In fact, all you probably need to do is to listen. Remember small dates like the first time you’ve met or the first time you took her out on a date. Make an effort to celebrate these with her. Do whatever is in your power to make her feel loved and cherished. Making girl feels special make her to think about you always.
3. Don’t keep talking about yourself, learn to listen
Don’t be like a person who only talks about himself and shows no interest in learning about the other person. If you are only going to keep bragging about yourself and your life, rest assured she will not turn to give you another look. Show a real interest in getting to know her better; it will take you a long way. Always listen to her, girls like guys that listen to them when they are talking.
4. Let her know that you are thinking about her
Drop her a message in the middle of the workday to check how her day is going or pick her up from work so that you’ll get that extra 30 minutes to spend together. Message her good morning first thing when you wake up or send her flowers or any small memento that makes you think of her. Whatever big or small it maybe, show her that you are thinking about her.
5. Keep that element of surprise
Now that you have learnt about what makes her happy, surprise her by using that information to your advantage. If she has a fantasy of a perfect date, make it happen for her. If she’s feeling low, show up on her doorstep to take her for a drive. Keep the element of surprise alive in order to keep her wondering and the excitement going.
