x

7 Signs You Might Be the Toxic One in Your Relationship

By   Milcah    Tanimu

Relationships are complex and require both partners to bring positivity, respect, and support. Sometimes, it’s tough to see when we might be the ones adding negativity. Here are 7 signs that could suggest you’re being toxic in your relationship:

1. Constant Criticism
If you frequently criticize your partner instead of engaging in constructive communication, it could lower their self-esteem. Highlighting flaws more than showing appreciation can create a negative atmosphere, ultimately harming trust and affection.

2. Avoiding Responsibility
If you often deflect blame or avoid apologizing when wrong, this shows a lack of self-awareness. Refusing to accept accountability can make your partner feel unheard and devalued, building up unresolved issues over time.

3. Over-Dependence for Happiness
Relying solely on your partner for emotional stability can become toxic, especially if you lack personal interests or friends outside the relationship. This can lead to clinginess, making your partner feel emotionally drained.

4. Disregarding Boundaries
Invading your partner’s personal space or privacy, like reading their messages or dismissing their need for alone time, can feel suffocating. Respect for personal boundaries is essential for a healthy relationship.

5. Passive-Aggressive Behavior
Using the silent treatment, making sarcastic remarks, or withholding affection are all signs of passive-aggressiveness. These behaviors prevent open communication and often leave unresolved issues, creating confusion and resentment.

6. Creating Drama
Starting arguments over trivial issues or making dramatic statements to seek attention can create a tense atmosphere. Frequent drama can make your partner feel emotionally exhausted and anxious.

7. Withholding Affection as Punishment
If you withhold affection or intimacy to punish your partner, this is a form of emotional manipulation. Such actions can make your partner feel insecure and create distance between you both.

If any of these signs resonate, consider taking steps to improve your approach and make your relationship healthier. Recognizing these behaviors is the first step to fostering a more positive connection.

Hot this week

Christian Pilgrims celebrate First Lady Remi Tinubu’s 65th Birthday in Jordan

By Joyce Remi-Babayeju Intending Christian pilgrims from four states, including...

Prof. Usman Ogbo Moves to Curb Rumoured Protest Over Fee Hike in Kogi Poly

By Noah Ocheni, Lokoja The management of Kogi State Polytechnic,...

NYCN Urges Support for Nasarawa Indigenes in Federal Appointments

By Abel Zwanke, Lafia The National Youth Council of Nigeria...

Bandits Disregard Peace Deal, Abduct 40 Worshippers in Zamfara Mosque Raid

By Achadu Gabriel, Kaduna Armed bandits have abducted nearly 40...

AIG Adenola Calls for Strong Police-Media Partnership in Bayelsa

The Assistant Inspector General of Police in charge of...

A’ibom moves to end epileptic electricity at Summit

By Ogenyi Ogenyi,,Uyo In a renewed move to end electricity...

WIELD-I to Protest Against NAFDAC Over Toxic Chemicals, Fake Drugs

…Calls for Removal of Prof. Mojisola Christianah Adeyeye The Women’s...

Calls for Reform Dominate Global Governance Initiative Seminar in Abuja

Nigerian and Chinese officials, scholars, and policymakers have called...

Senator Lalong Congratulates Plateau APC Woman Leader Alice Dimlong at 50

Senator Simon Bako Lalong, representing Plateau South Senatorial District...

Sokoto Govt Flags Off Food Distribution for Vulnerable Groups

By Muhammad Ibrahim, Sokoto The Sokoto State Government says it...

AIG Adenola Calls for Strong Police-Media Partnership in Bayelsa

The Assistant Inspector General of Police in charge of...

NAPS Backs Kogi Poly on Fees Increment, Shelves Protest

By Noah Ocheni, Lokoja The National Association of Polytechnic Students...

Only Traitors Wish For Nepal-Style Protest In Lagos, Says Group

The Defend Nigeria Movement (DNM) has joined in warning...

Related Articles

Popular Categories

spot_imgspot_img