For many people, sex talk might not come naturally. However, your mouth is one of the best ways of giving pleasure in the bedroom… through communication of course.
Dirty talk with your man keeps him thinking about you. In fact, dirty talk has been scientifically proven to increase sexual pleasure and you can’t argue with science! A common misconception that makes sex talk so daunting is that it’s just screaming profanities at the top of your lungs, as porn insists. Talking dirty also builds sexual tension in a relationship.
However, there are different levels of dirty talk, you can even start off whispering something into your partner’s ear, it’s just as effective and sexy. One thing you should know is what you say doesn’t arouse them, it is how you actually say it.
With that been said lets move on to the main business
1. Be natural: There’s no exact script and phrasing that works for everyone. Just be yourself and say what comes naturally to you. You don’t want it to sound forced or fake.
2. Be confident: Use an assertive voice when you’re talking to your partner, to show you’re confident. This will make him feel like you really mean what you’re saying. Expressing yourself is very sexy to your partner. However, if you’re feeling a bit shy, start by whispering things into your partner’s ear as it can be just as effective.
3. Don’t fake it: The last thing you want to try to do is try to put on a big show and say a lot of things you don’t believe.
4. Guessing games: Phrases like, ‘I’ve got a surprise for you tonight’, will make your partner’s imagination run wild with excitement and keep them wanting more. You don’t watch a film and skip right to the last two minutes. The best bit is the suspense and guessing what the ending will be. Use the power of anticipation to your advantage.
