By Abigail Philip David
Veteran Nollywood actor Kanayo O. Kanayo has weighed in on a viral incident from his hometown, Mbaise, Imo State, where a wedding was reportedly called off after the groom’s family was asked to pay a ₦1 million bride price.
A widely shared video captured the frustration of a groom’s family member, who expressed outrage over the high demand, ultimately leading to the cancellation of the wedding. The incident has since sparked discussions about traditional marriage costs in southeastern Nigeria.
Kanayo Defends Mbaise Tradition
Reacting to the controversy, Kanayo O. Kanayo dismissed claims that Mbaise is notorious for exorbitant bride prices. He clarified that bride price is not fixed and varies across Igbo land, depending on family traditions and the perceived value of the bride.
He wrote:
“Bride price is relative in Igbo land and varies from family to family. It is also dependent on the value attributed to the girl… It is not peculiar to Ndi Mbaise.”
Mixed Reactions from Netizens
The incident has sparked diverse reactions online, with many sharing personal experiences about traditional marriage customs across different Igbo communities.
- @ihazamichael: “I am an Esan man from Edo State, married to a woman from Awka North, Achalla. Before my marriage, I was scared because of the things we see online. But when I started the traditional process, I realized it was easier than marrying from my place. My father-in-law and my wife’s elder brother made everything so easy. I didn’t even spend half of my budget!”
- @i_am_kingrussell01: “You’re forever blessed, sir. Thanks for setting the record straight.”
- @francisahamefuna: “Absolutely correct. I am proudly married to an Mbaise woman, and I can relate. Mbaise women are decent, respectful, and contented. They are hardworking and committed to raising God-fearing children. For peace of mind, marry an Mbaise woman.”
- @darluchechima: “Oga, marrying from Mbaise is something I will never dream of again. The one we did, we have been living with regrets.”
- @chinasa_ruth_izuchukwu: “What Kanayo said is the truth. Bride price isn’t fixed. They may ask for ₦1 million but end up taking just ₦50, because they are not selling their daughter.”
The debate on bride price and traditional marriage costs in Igbo culture continues to generate conversation, with many emphasizing that the process differs from family to family.
